About Me

How long have you been helping women, and how did
you become a Life & Relationship Coach?

To answer this question, I want to share a pivotal moment that has shaped my journey to where I am today - helping women, just like you, overcome their past and create the life and relationship of their DREAMS.

This pivotal moment happened in 2015 when I turned 30.

When I was 20, I made the decision to quit college because I was offered an incredible opportunity for a high-paying sales position during my summer break. At that time, it didn’t make sense to return to school because I was earning more money than many of my friends' parents.

However, I was young and inexperienced and didn't realize the volatility of the market. When the 2008 recession hit, I lost everything. This was a huge blow to my self-esteem, confidence and identity. I went from making $120,000 a year, owning a beautiful condo, driving a fancy Audi A8, and enjoying total independence to moving in with my grandmother. Ouch!

I felt completely defeated. I had hit rock bottom and couldn't fathom how things could get any worse. I felt like people were mocking me, judging my unconventional decision to drop out of college for a career that ultimately fell apart.

To add to my troubles, I entered into a negative relationship that only reinforced my belief that my life wouldn't improve. My partner was content with living at home with his parents, settling for mediocre jobs, and spending his time playing video games on the couch. Ugh.

However, deep down, I harbored a glimmer of hope and firmly believed that my life and career could take a turn for the better if I refused to settle and gave it my all. I started reading widely, including the famous book "The Secret," and numerous other materials on personal development. This powerful literature transformed my outlook on life and success.

Before long, I stumbled upon a new career opportunity that put me back on track for a six-figure income, left the toxic relationship behind, and continued on a journey of personal and professional growth.

I began working for a life insurance company, and initially, it was exciting. However, it eventually turned into a toxic work environment. I worked tirelessly around the clock to maintain my position as a top performer in the company. Although I gained valuable knowledge and support from my mentors, it felt very conditional.

I wanted more money and recognition for my hard work, but the further I pushed myself and the more I achieved, it ended up costing me greatly when it came to my mental, emotional, and even physical well-being. Not good.

While I received awards and recognition as a top sales representative, I realized that the spotlight was a lonely place. Much of my time and energy was devoted to advancing my career. I traveled extensively for meetings and training sessions, barely managing six hours of sleep each night and eating a lot of fast food.

As time progressed, I found myself feeling increasingly depressed and gaining weight. I sought love and approval from a career and leaders that only acknowledged my results, and I never felt truly valued or respected.

The lack of sleep took a toll on me, and the weight gain from not exercising regularly and long hours of driving led to intense back pain and self-esteem issues. Not only was my professional life becoming miserable, but I also found myself making poor choices in relationships once again. My standards were low because, to be honest, I didn't want to be alone.

Growing up in a home affected by drug and alcohol addiction instilled in me the need to seek love and approval from others at any cost. I believed that achieving success would fill that void, but it only resulted in more problems. I was thankful to have a career, but I was profoundly unhappy.