The Confidence Mentor for Women

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I’m Nikki, and I’m here to help you break free from your past and design the life and relationships you’ve always dreamed of.

But before I became the confident woman I am today, I went on a journey of transformation that shaped everything I now teach.

The Moment That Changed Everything

2015 was the year I turned 31—and it marked a pivotal turning point in my life.

But to fully understand, let me take you back a bit further.

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From Success to Rock Bottom

At 20, I made a bold decision: to leave college for a high-paying sales career. For a while, it seemed like the best choice—I was earning $120,000 annually, living in a beautiful condo, and driving an Audi A8.

But when the 2008 recession hit, I lost everything.

I lost my job, my independence, and my sense of identity. I moved in with my grandmother and found myself in a toxic relationship. I felt defeated, judged, and completely lost.

Yet, deep within, I clung to a flicker of hope. I believed wholeheartedly that my life and career could change for the better if I refused to settle and committed to my personal growth. I dove into self-help literature, including "The Secret," which completely transformed my perspective on success and sparked a path to healing.

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The Climb Back Up

Soon after, I found a new career opportunity that restored my financial stability and confidence. I left the toxic relationship and focused on rebuilding myself.

But even as I succeeded professionally—becoming a top sales representative and earning awards—I faced new challenges.

  • I dedicated countless hours to maintain my status as a top performer, and while I did gain valuable skills and support from my mentors, it often felt like it came with strings attached.

  • I yearned for increased compensation and recognition for my hard work, but the more I pushed myself and achieved, the more it took a toll on my mental, emotional, and physical health. It was unsustainable.

  • Despite receiving awards and accolades as a top sales representative, I learned that the spotlight can be a lonely place.

  • My relentless pursuit of career advancement was all-consuming. I found myself frequently traveling for meetings and training sessions, surviving on just five hours of sleep each night and relying heavily on fast food to fuel my busy schedule.

  • Long hours, toxic workplace dynamics, and relentless pressure took a toll on my physical and emotional health which lead to neglecting exercise, gaining weight and again, making poor relationship choices.

Having grown up in a household impacted by drug and alcohol addiction, I developed a desperate need for love and approval from others, even at a high cost.

My need for external validation drove me into a cycle of overwork, unhealthy habits, strained relationships and a whole new different kind of “bottom”.

Breaking the Cycle

Recognizing the need for change became a pivotal moment in my life.

After years of unwavering dedication to my career, my health suffering and the lack of meaningful connections in relationships, I came to understand that achieving external milestones didn't lead to true fulfillment.

Seeking help from a life coach changed everything. Through their guidance, I:

Confronted and healed past traumas
Set healthy boundaries with my family.
Raised my standards in relationships and personal goals.
Discovered the true importance of prioritizing self-care and self-love.

Ultimately, my life coach provided a clear, step-by-step path to reclaiming my life and my power, allowing me to move forward confidently and without regret.

For the first time, I began building a life that felt truly aligned and fulfilling.

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Finding Love and Purpose

Months later, I met the man who would become my life partner and the father of our beautiful daughter. With my newfound confidence and clarity, I built a life filled with love, joy, and purpose.

Inspired by my own transformation, I made it my mission to help other women do the same.

I created A Confident Woman Unleashed, my signature program, to guide women toward the clarity, confidence, and fulfillment they deserve.

My Mission to Empower Women

Through coaching and transformative retreats across the United States, I’ve helped women from all walks of life rediscover their self-worth, set healthy boundaries, and create meaningful change in their personal and professional lives.

With the right guidance, you don’t need years of therapy to see results. Together, we’ll unlock your potential and create the life you truly deserve.

Ready to start your journey?

Let’s do this together.

The woman who dedicates herself to personal growth is the one who ultimately claims the life she truly desires.

You are capable of amazing things, and I’m here to help you get there.