Breaking up
What if this break-up IS the best thing for you right now?
What if this unresolved emotion triggering you day after day IS exactly what you should be experiencing right now?
What if the disappointments you're going through IS actually perfect timing for you right now?
ALL of this sounds crazy huh? You may even be thinking or saying out loud "What the fu*k is this woman talking about!"
I get you! That was my same feeling and thought several years ago when I started exploring help and getting answers in my own life.
I landed in a Facebook Community just like this one five years ago and oh my my it was on like donkey kong! What do I mean? I mean, I knew that I had come across something that I'd never experienced before in my life from others. That "something" was being reminded each day to look in the mirror and realize that I WAS the 'common denominator' in all of my problems and disappointments in life, love, career and all my other relationships. DING DING DING!!!🛎🛎🛎
This epiphany led me down a road of MASSIVE self-discovery, healing and SO SO much more.
So I ask you...
The relationship that you're in right now, or that has recently ended, is or was it more dysfunctional and toxic than it was healthy, fulfilling and loving?
What about the other problems in your life that are blowing up in your face right now or are about too? Where they just a ticking time bomb waiting to go off anyway?
I know MOST of mine certainly were and my clients would say the same. Until YOU take a good hard honest look at your life and relationships (without the rose colored glasses and fantasy land thoughts) not much will change for you. If anything, you will just keep REPEATING the same habitual experiences and outcomes of unhealthy relationships, tremendous heart ache, suffering with doubting yourself, worth and value. Don't keep doing this especially when you have a another choice.
Its a BIG FAT MYTH thinking and believing that your life and your relationships will get better and improve over time and if you keep working hard to be perfect, easy, good, quiet and all this other emotion suppression B.S.
The TRUTH however is the quality of YOUR life will get better, more fulfilling, purposeful and meaningful the moment YOU commit to taking responsibility for your behavior and happiness, this looks a lot like you starting to deal with, process and heal your past letting it go. NO MORE distracting yourself, numbing out, avoiding by overworking, over exercising, overspending, spiritual bypassing and whatever other strategies your turn too.
Listen, more truth, you will have to create new concepts of yourself, both emotional and physical 'daily' habits and lastly taking action on your goals and plans that you have for yourself. Not all at once, JUST ONE STEP AT A TIME, that's it!
THIS work right here is the beautiful and SIMPLE 8 step process I've been teaching my clients for the past 4 years in 'A Confident Woman Unleashed' my 90 day signature program. If you're ready and COMMITTED to doing the same in your own life, I invite you to book in a FREE 30 Minute Clarity Call http://bit.ly/nikkiclaritycall to learn your next steps! Hurry though, SPOTS are filling up quickly, just a few left for March. Schedule yours today http://bit.ly/nikkiclaritycall. Nothing to lose just a WHOLE new unconditional loving relationship and purposeful life on YOUR terms to gain!😘
Much Love ~Nikki