Feeling disappointed again
Are you feeling disappointed and frustrated yet again?
Getting FED UP and exhausted with the same old bullshit happening - but only this time it's with a different person and a different type of circumstance?
"Why can't things just start getting better in my life... Why does this keep happening to me, what the hell has gotta give?" you might be saying to yourself.
I SO KNOW how you feel and what you mean. I REALLY REALLY DO!! However, I am also going to challenge you by asking you to consider a few things because I truly want to help you, okay?...
First question: When things end up going south in your life and/or relationships, how are you responding to this? Do you have the tendency to avoid, distract, numb out or blame the other person...
Or, are you getting curious about what happened, what led up to this blow and why almost the same things keeping playing out over and over like a broken record? Meaning, are you giving yourself time to examine the situation with a clear head and calm, mature attitude, or not so much?
Second question: Are you taking any personal responsibility for your behavior and choices from the get-go? For example, have their been "red flags" showing up numerous times, but you choose to ignore them? Another example, could you have spoken up expressing your feelings and concerns earlier on, should you have said no and walked away from the beginning, could you have set some more solid boundaries...
REALLY think about the questions I'm asking you here. Challenge yourself to not react, but better yet to breath, calm down and to "respond" clearly and calmly to your upset feelings, doubt and fears. Okay. You can do this girl, I know you can. Give yourself this grace, safe space and nurturing time needed. Please.💛
Lastly, if you've been in the group for a while, have been resonating with my message and teachings, I encourage you to take that next step if you are ready to start your journey of healing, letting go, creating new concepts of yourself and habits, and basically my love REWRITING a whole new story for yourself! A story and life that is filled with UNSTOPPABLE confidence, trust and belief in your worth, value and what you BRING TO THE F- ING TABLE!!! I promise you that creating a fulfilling life and relationship you DESERVE doesn't require years of therapy, not at all! It just requires you saying "YES" to yourself, investing in yourself and making yourself a PRIORITY over the next 90 days, NO EXCUSES!!!
If YOU are ready, I invite you to apply to work with me in "A Confident Woman Unleashed" my 90 day signature program! Spots are filling up, so apply TODAY http://bit.ly/nikkiclaritycall. Quit wasting your precious time and heart on people and things that don't deserve you. Say "NO MORE" to that bullshit!!!