When things change inside you, things change around you
TODAY you get to make the choice to give your power away to what other people think of you and to settle for their approval and acceptance
OR...
Today you can choose to believe in yourself more, raise your standards for yourself and others, set boundaries where needed, and you can also choose to start TAKING ACTION where you've been procrastinating and making excuses
YOU my love are 100 percent responsible for your own happiness and fulfillment each day. STOP putting this responsibility on your man, clients, bestie, children and sister. Your happiness is not their job. It never has been. It's YOURS! #truthbomb
HOW LONG have you been tip-toeing around in life with your choices because you're afraid someone will not like the real you or because you're worried they may feel envious or jealous of you expressing your creativity and gifts?
HOW LONG have you been suffering in silence because you're afraid to speak up to ask for what you want and need or because you're afraid that this person might leave you?
Story of my life! So, I TOTALLY get you. For over a decade I worked my butt off trying to "fit in" with the "cool crowd". I never spoke up, would sacrifice my emotional, physical and financial health for others approval, love and acceptance of me, I would stay in toxic or loveless relationships way pass their expiration date and I would hit repeat on this pattern over and over year after year because I feared being alone.
This behavior COST ME BIG TIME!!! Because I was so obsessed with others liking me and wanting me, I ended up developing a chronic back pain, getting myself into tons of debt that led to a bankruptcy, selling my soul to a 10 year career that I never truly felt valued and appreciated in hitting rock bottom at the ripe old age of 30! Insane in the membrane!
The BLESSING however of hitting rock bottom 5 years ago was it also led me to my spiritual awakening. When the rug was pulled out from underneath of me it forced me to get honest with myself and my choices. I had to take a good long hard look in the mirror and ask myself "did I want to continue living for others approval of me, or did I want to start living life for me and on my terms" The answer of course, I was ready to take my life and power back. And, that's EXACTLY what I did!
Soon after I made the decision to start living LIFE ON MY TERMS, I discovered Life Coaching. My coach very quickly taught me how to process years of suppressed emotions, resentment, shame, anger, fear and pain from my past so I could heal and free myself from those chains. She then taught me how to create new concepts of myself and productive daily habits. Concepts of worthiness, I am enough, I can trust myself, I have everything I need to succeed in life already within me, I am loved, I can believe in myself, I can have what I want, I can do work in the world that is purposeful, meaningful, fulfilling and lucrative and I can have the relationship of my DREAMS. And, productive daily habits such as a daily gratitude practice of journaling and meditation, reading books on personal development for 15-20 minutes a day, how to eat more clean and exercise regularly, speak my truth, raise my standards, set boundaries where needed and how to take action on my goals one-step and one-day at a time consistently in a sustainable exciting way.
Fast forward to today, I am engaged to an AMAZING man, we've traveled the world together side by side over the past 4 years New Zealand being my absolute favorite country!, we bought a lovely home together, I healed myself from over 10 years of chronic back pain, in the healthiest and fittest shape of my life today, and most rewarding of all is I started my own Life Coaching practice helping women JUST LIKE YOU who are in a place now where I was several years ago!
For the past 4 years I've been teaching my clients how to heal from their past so they can move forward in creating a fulfilling life on their terms in my 'A Confident Woman Unleashed' 90 day signature program. If you are ready to be next, I invite you to book in a Free 30 Minute Clarity Call with me here http://bit.ly/nikkiclaritycall
to learn your next step! My program is for self-sufficient driven and ambitious women. If this describes you, then apply today http://bit.ly/nikkiclaritycall.
See you on the inside Goddess!😘❤️✨
BIG Hugs,
Nikki